Bern Mendez
Dating and Relationship Coach
Bern Mendez is a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach with 14 years of experience helping accomplished women in midlife form deeply committed partnerships. His YouTube channel is one of the top twelve dating advice sources for women worldwide, with over 30 million views and 227,000+ subscribers. Featured by CNN, HuffPost, Redbook, Univision, and MindBodyGreen, Bern has coached women in 24 countries—including Fortune 100 executives, physicians, and entrepreneurs—who now enjoy relationships defined by emotional depth, respect, and lasting commitment.
Sept. 23, 2025
1,218 | Bern Mendez Shares His Journey From Darkness to Relationship Coaching
My name is Bernardo, but most people call me Bern, since it’s easier to pronounce. I’ve been on a path dedicated to helping others for over 30 years, since I was just 17.
My journey into coaching began at one of the lowest points of my life. I was struggling deeply with depression when a mentor …